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Sunday, October 16, 2011

A topic of interest #chos

I really love impromptu chikahan with my girlfriends. We share everything and anything under the sun. No holds barred. I can trust them with my deepest and darkest secret. LOL

What's the topic of interest? Puso. Pag-ebeg. LOVE.

Though we already graduated from college and some are pursuing their masters degree already, I still consider us relatively "young" since we still have our dreams we want to pursue and careers we want to be successful in.

It's funny how my (ahjussis) office mates think that I'm a lesbo just because no one is fetching me from work and I told them that I don't have a boyfriend. No, really. I overheard them talking and snooping around my FB account to find my "girlfriend". Sorry to disappoint them but the last time I checked, I prefer men with.... #TMI. Hahaha

The bottom line is... as much as we want to be in a relationship right now, must of us are just being CAREFUL. Not that we're picky, maybe we are, but we're just careful to not fall in love with the wrong guy. We've seen or heard stories about girls falling deeply in love and in the end loosing herself. It's sad and we don't want to be one of those girls. But I don't blame girls for falling in love. It's a courageous thing to do. I admit I'm a coward, I don't take risk when it comes to love. But there are lessons we need to learn and sadly having our heart broken is one of them.

We've been there and done that. One mistake is enough.

xoxo,
_M_